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do you think i need counsilin

Posted December 13th, 2009 by la morria confused

well my problem is that my husband is the kind of guy that likes to make love/sex mostly every night, and i don't want it every night. well he does get me in the mood though, when he starts to give me kisses, but it takes me awhile to get into it.... but im never in the mood if he don't look for me, and that really bugs him, he says he needs to feel loved and wanted. i do understand that but i just can't make the move. Like for me intimacy is out of my question. i have 12 yrs with him. But when he makes love to me i do enjoy it and alot. he wants me to try different things but i would dare to. i still get like shy or ashamed. well my main problem is that while im asleep i make noises, like if i would be havin sex in my dream, but i don't dream about sex. i may be dreaming of other things but i would still make those noises, (my husband has recorded me so i could believe him) it even freaked me out when i heard myself. it does sound like enjoying the sex in my sleep. but i don't dream about that. Do you think there is a problem with me? Please let me know any advice it would help me so.