hiding from the world and little kids

Posted October 14th, 2008 by dohickey

i'm in a really sad, lonely place, and want to stay that way -- i don't call people back, i don't see friends (except scheduling myself for meals -- and gain weight and lose friends.... have lots of stuff to work out. is it ok, to turn off the lights for halloween and pretend, or should i go to the movies?

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I know how you're feeling b/c I used to lock myself in my bedroom for days at a time b/c I was so depressed and lonely. I know what your feeling and whatever is making you feel that way you need to figure out if it's worth being alone and alienating yourself from the world. I think you should get a friend and talk whatever is happening through. or if it's something that you can't talk about with friends write it on here anonymously. It will feel better. Don't hide yourself I would hate to see someone go through the same stuff I've gone through. if you need a stranger to talk to, to know at least someone is listening post back :)

Wow
Tell someone you know loves you and cares about how you feel
Get it out there to you close friends and relatives

When there is a lot that you got to get together within yourself it is easy
to get down or feel low.

You need someone to be your confidant so you can talk to them without judgments
about the stuff that is bothering you.

Sometimes you need to go to someone older for help…
sometimes you cannot make it off of the advice of your peers
sometimes you can’t sort it all out yourself.

A simple story:
It’s nap time
1 toddler wants to get a glass cup out of the kitchen cabinet
This cabinet is above the stove
He is to short to reach it
He needs it
He is thirsty
Finally…
He goes to his friend another toddler slightly older
He wakes him
All they can think of together is to either climb up the stove
or for one to stand on top of the other
Mamma is sleeping
She doesn't know that he is thirsty
or what he and his friend are planning
If only they had asked for help
one would not be in the hospital now
in a coma with 3rd degree burns
They would not have lost their home

You will be ok
I know that you will be alright.

Human have hardships
We all have to deal with complex issues
Look at Dr. Phil, Maury, Oprah, Cheaters, Jerry Springer,
Steve, Life Times, 20/20 and you local news

You are not alone

I can be hard to have to deal with complex issues
That’s what makes you want the world to stop
Or time stand still
Or just hide from it all

The longer you hold off from getting things straight
Or getting help
Or just letting the people that matter in life know how you feel
Or what is going on
The long you will want to hide.

As soon as you let go of that fear of dealing with your problems and just do it
Do it for your life
Do it for yourself
Do it for your happiness

You will began to feel better

I wish you the best
You can do it

ps you are not really hiding as much as you think you are
why would you come here if you wanted to hide

much love
hope this helps

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