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How much time is too much?

Posted January 16th, 2010 by anonymous2511

When I was in HS I had a group of friends who at the time I considered my best friends. When I found out I was moving away they became distant and began to ignore me and treat me like third wheel. After so much I confronted them and thingsdidn't go so well and we stopped being friends. A month later one of them attempted to be friends again and we gave it another go but things were too broken and damaged between us. I moved away and came back briefly and left again. During my time away I learned a lot about myself and about the type of person I was. It also forced me to discover the damage they had done after they were no longer in my life. It's taking me 3 years to finally trust people and allow them to be friends. I know see that although some of my actions were rash and unfair to them they treated me unfairly and acting like my enemies. The point is I want to tell them everything I've learned about myself, to make them understand why I did what I did and how they hurt me. Like I said it's been more than 3 years now and I'm not sure it's a good idea to rehash old wounds.