We're both 19. He and I have been together for 4 and a half years now. We don't live together because we would have no way to support ourselves. I have always felt excited to be around him and receive attention from him and been happy to give it back. But, these days I just feel annoyed when he tries to get romantic or even calls or messages me. I have hardly any interest in being around him. It just doesn't feel good anymore.
He feels more like one of those annoying people who distantly crushes on you and messages you on facebook and stuff to bother you. It's like... before, we were friends. Now there is no friendship. And for me that means there is no real love.
I've tried talking to him about this but it doesn't seem to help. He just goes on and on about how he's trying to make it to where we can live together and have things in common again and he's trying to make me happy. He even freaked out and started crying when he realized I was drifting away from him emotionally.
We made love the other night and then everything seemed ok. Things felt good between us like they used to. But now that feeling has faded and I'm back to where I was.
I'm afraid to break up with him. I'm afraid to hurt him and I'm afraid how everyone (in our families) will react. Not to mention, he's said several times that if I ever leave that he will kill himself.
I just don't know what to do... What to do with this...
Help?
Answers
Post new answer