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Marrired and Living with Parents

Posted October 21st, 2009 by Cutie McCrazy

So, I've been married just over a year now, and have just moved in with my parents. The worst part is, we are hardly ever alone! My mom is a teacher and gets home at about 3:00, and my dad makes his own hours and prefers to go in late, (sometimes as late as 2:00 and 3:00 PM) and stay until late (once again, as late as 12:00 or even 1:00 AM) working 10 hour shifts so he doesn't have to work at all on Friday. Friday is the one day my husband has off too (besides the weekend). I used to have an extremely healthy sexual appetite (actually, a little on the over zealous side), but I like to be able to be loud. With my parents home and walking about, I'm too scared they can hear whatever we say, and when we have sex. I am completely losing my sexual appetite, but we cannot leave because I am a new college graduate, and he's at college now, and completely broke. Neither of us have found jobs in the six months of being here! I don't know what to do, because he's always wanting me to come over and have sex with him, but I'm too uncomfortable. I'm afraid that now my sexual appetite is gone, it will be gone forever, especially since this is the time in the marriage when the sexual activity is supposed to be at its peak! I'm so upset!