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OK - now think about it. Why do you care about why he broke up with you? Ha! you want closure. you want him to tell you all that he finds wrong with you so that you can correct him and make him fall in love with you again. He has made an error in judgement. Maybe he is listening to his mom who hates you. You can go on and on and for every one who has been dumped these questions come up.

Why not use the more positive approach. He has rejected you. it is over. Tell him to get lost. Get another dog. Why get involved with him anymore. It is important for your own self respect to close that chapter and move on with your life. When we love people who have hurt you, you are damaging yourself. Just like your instant reaction when you touch something hot and you get burned is to get away from stove, your reaction needs to be the same. This guy has burnt you - get away from him and shut him out of your life permanently.

You can end all his games. Just shut him out and never answer his phone again. If you run into him - just walk right past as if he never existed. This is one person you can do without.

You may find this advice hard to take - and you want to be friends with him. All this will do is prevent you from the chance of a loving relationship with someone else.