I was married to my husband for 8 years. Everything was great ontil the last year ot two. He lost his job and we lost our house. He began to be abusive when he drank. When he was sober, he was the wonderful man that woman could dream of. I ended the married. It's been two years now, without him. I can't seem to get him out of my mind. I dream about constantly. I just talked to him the other night for 2 hours. He still feels the same way with me. He still loves me too.
Now, i have been with someone else. But, it hasn't been the same. I love my boyfriend but, not the same way. I have mixed thoughts of what might have been. I really need to know why, i'm still thinking about him and still love him.......
Maybe it's just a phase i'm going through. I really don't know. It's so hard.
Can anyone give me some advice??????
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dohickey said:
i would be very, very hesitant to give him any more chances. he may "need" you, in the same way he did before... very un-good
hopex3 said:
once you fall in love with someone your always going to be. you will never stop thinking about him. i think that you dont have strong enough feelings with your current boyfriend. if you did he would make you so happy that you wouldnt think about going back to you ex. yes you would miss him still but you wouldnt think to go back to him
you dont deserve to abused in anyway you shouldnt be mistreated with words or actions. if you really want to get back with your ex explain that he has to drop the liquer. you have to ask him whats more important to him... you or the drinks. and he has to prove it to you. and dont let him say "how can i prove it to you?" if he really wants to try to make it work he can find a way himself. and if he does you will truly know that he wants you back and means it.
Bella said:
If you end up wanting to be with your lover. Try to get him to stop drinking a lot. Nobody deserves to be abused in any kind of way.
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