ok, it's been 25 years and thensome since i was a desperate teenage boy, but other than "say no", if you are both old enough to know better and both want to explore, go at the pace of the least ready. he'll wait until you get caught up.
Say no if you're uncomfortable! I can't reiterate enough how many times I've had friends who've regretted going farther than they wanted to. Wait until you are ready to go wherever he's trying to take you, and if he tries to make a big issue of it (like breaking up with you) stand your ground! A guy that won't respect your boundaries isn't worth your time.
I have to agree here, many guys want the same thing. There is nothing wrong with saying no or making them wait until YOU are ready. If a guy truly cares about a girl, he will respect her wishes.
Tell him you'll do it if he'll do something for you like put his dick in his dogs ass. Otherwise say no dude, I'm not ready and I would hope you can respect that.
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rantandraver said:
ok, it's been 25 years and thensome since i was a desperate teenage boy, but other than "say no", if you are both old enough to know better and both want to explore, go at the pace of the least ready. he'll wait until you get caught up.
DarkGoddessLibrarian said:
Say no if you're uncomfortable! I can't reiterate enough how many times I've had friends who've regretted going farther than they wanted to. Wait until you are ready to go wherever he's trying to take you, and if he tries to make a big issue of it (like breaking up with you) stand your ground! A guy that won't respect your boundaries isn't worth your time.
downtherabbithole said:
you dont know how to say no, or you dont know how to go about doing what he wants?
dont feel presured, or let him push you around, and always be informed, and protected. if he tries to push you then leave him. immediatly
Skyman62 said:
I have to agree here, many guys want the same thing. There is nothing wrong with saying no or making them wait until YOU are ready. If a guy truly cares about a girl, he will respect her wishes.
Shy said:
Tell him you'll do it if he'll do something for you like put his dick in his dogs ass. Otherwise say no dude, I'm not ready and I would hope you can respect that.
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