what do i do when i really like a guy, and he is pressuring me to do things with him, but i dont know how to?

Posted October 1st, 2008 by (:

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ok, it's been 25 years and thensome since i was a desperate teenage boy, but other than "say no", if you are both old enough to know better and both want to explore, go at the pace of the least ready. he'll wait until you get caught up.

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Say no if you're uncomfortable! I can't reiterate enough how many times I've had friends who've regretted going farther than they wanted to. Wait until you are ready to go wherever he's trying to take you, and if he tries to make a big issue of it (like breaking up with you) stand your ground! A guy that won't respect your boundaries isn't worth your time.

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you dont know how to say no, or you dont know how to go about doing what he wants?

dont feel presured, or let him push you around, and always be informed, and protected. if he tries to push you then leave him. immediatly

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I have to agree here, many guys want the same thing. There is nothing wrong with saying no or making them wait until YOU are ready. If a guy truly cares about a girl, he will respect her wishes.

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Tell him you'll do it if he'll do something for you like put his dick in his dogs ass. Otherwise say no dude, I'm not ready and I would hope you can respect that.

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I would agree with almost every response to your question so far. If anyone ever pressures you into anything you don't feel comfortable doing, you should definitely not do it! If he is the right guy for you he will wait. It's not fair to you to get into something that you are not ready for personally, and there is no age limit for this! If you're 23 and you're with a guy who is 19 and you don't feel ready, then DON'T DO IT. If the guy really cares about you or "loves" you then he will respect your wishes whether he is happy about it or not. If he does not respect how you feel, then he is a dirtbag that needs to snap to his senses and straighten up. This is so much more true for girls as unfair as it may seem, because if you get knocked up and he really doesn't care about you, you're left holding the burden while he skips town.

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It sounds like he doesn't know how to flirt with a girl very well. Tell him directly how you feel and what you would like instead.

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