This is a girl i dated in college and broke up our senior year. I was cheating on her but she was oblivious. It look a lot to dump her as she wouldn't get the message and kept coming back as if we were going to marry and live happily ever after.
Twenty years later we are both married with families. I was curious and contacted her by email. Boy did she come running back. Wanted to meet me and wrote emails and even started calling me. sent me gifts at my work. I know she did not tell her husband anything.
After she became more aggressive and showed up at my work, i had to meet her. Lucklily she lives in a different state but her family lives in my town. She wants to meet me over Christmas of all times. I keep being nice because I am afraid she could have a breakdown but it seems we are getting deeper into a mess that i don't want. Anything nice i say she interprets as if i am still in love with her. Last time we met she pulled another one on me that when i dumped her i caused her epilepsy.
My wife has been understanding but i could invite her in to meet her. I am afraid that would encourage her even more. I thought of calling her husband.
This is not a big deal for me but is sure is a huge deal for her. Any ideas how I can get the message across without causing some weird action on her part?
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Shy said:
Try and get her into some kind of therapy. Your ex needs help. She has major self esteem issues and may have had some childhood trauma that is affecting her. She may need medication. She is definately sick - mental illness.
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