I just found out that one of my best friends pretty much rapped another one of my friends. I know that its wrong and unforgivable to do such acts. She hasn't turned him in and now I will forever look at him different. would I be wrong or out of place to report it? I mean if you do something like that once it will only be easier to keep doing it. He is like family to me but at the same time i dont agree with rape at all I'm a million times against it. I dont know if she is just making it up but she isnt the type to say something like that. I am lost on this subject and even tho she has seemed to forgive him for whatever reason she has I cant let it go. I really bothers me that he would do something like this since he has been with his girl friend for a long time. Does anyone have any kind of advice that would help??
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dohickey said:
do what you can for your friend, first -- get her to talk with a counselor, or you, or someone about this. a crime has been committed, morally and legally if she decides to do that, but emotionally, too -- she has to at least cope with that.
yayareaboy said:
why don't you just confront your friend and tell him that was kinda fucked up, cause obviously if you think he's gonna do it again, he doesn't know that you know. but if he knows that his best friend thinks it's fucked up then it's a different story. and the quicker you do that and get it out of the way it'll be better, and you don't want counseling either. the best thing to do is to just never talk about and keep living life, which sounds contrary to popular belief but it's what you need to do. life's way too short to spend hours in a room talking about how you got raped 4 years and how it still affects you. and if she's not pressing charges then there's no point fucking over your best friend. you need to get the story on the circumstances also cause if she's not pressing charges or anything like that, it just sounds like there might be a little more going on then what she's telling you. there might be a little surf and turf behind the scenes.
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