About a year ago I became a little better than friends with this guy. Problem is...I'm married and this guy is a friend of my husbands. We don't have a physical relationship, he doesn't even live in the same state, but we have an an emotional relationship. We text a lot and send pictures and stuff like that. I have feelings for him they are confusing to me and I'm not really sure about how he feels. I have been unhappy with my marriage for a while. My husband is a great guy and a great father, I have been with him since I was 15 and we had our first child when I was 16. I feel like I didn't really get time to be my self and be with other people. Now I just feel smothered by him. I really don't know what to do at this point. I think that if this other guy lived by me we definitely would have had a physical relationship by now. Part of me feels guilty that I have this type of friendship but part of me is thrilled with how it makes me feel. Is it wrong to feel this way?
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Shy said:
You are having an emotional affair: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3pFrkC7PFHc&feature=related
You are on a slippery slope that will leave a lot of damage. If you don't stop this right now you and your family will pay a huge price and YOU will be the person responsible for it.
You are lucky you found love at 16 and married. Compared yourself to the used up and dumped, emotionally damaged women who have been through numerous boyfriends and affairs before they married. When I talk to my male friends they are full of frustration and joke about how little sex they get and how their wives have headaches and fall asleep at 10 and shout at them to let them sleep and get some rest - these are damaged women who after many men and heartbreaks cannot even give their best to a man they have married.
Be glad you feel guilty - thats your conscience telling you to stop this garbage. Yes it may be thrilling but it will be over soon and you will be left damaged and hurt and unable to find happiness in love again.
Don't screw up your life. I am afraid adultery is all round us and cheaters are everywhere - from Bill Clinton to JImmy Swaggert. These stories seem to make it acceptable to betray your vows - it is NOT and certainly not the recipe for happiness.
Shy said:
Girl im in the exact same position as you and im very confused email me at sandra_18_786@yahoo.com maybe it will help talking to someone who is in the same position and gets what were talking about.
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