I want to take away all of his problems and help him feel good about himself. I want to show him how great he is. I always tell him but he never believes it. I think he has been with too many ugly women to realize himself, how wonderful he is and can be.
I want to date him for a couple years and maybe even marry him but I really dont think it would last forever.
He is a great guy and I have always liked him but I just get the feeling we will disagree at some point to the degree of separation.
Im a very forward moving person, I think hes stuck and think hes ok with that.
I dont know what his problem is, but I still want him..... for now
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dohickey said:
interesting -- almost like you like the "project" more than the person he is?
JenJen said:
Ive been enthralled with him since before I knew about any of the other things.
The only reason Im not so sure we would last is because I will be in a very different place in life in 5-10 years and I think he might just want to stay where he is.
Melpomene said:
I actually think what you've said is quite reasonable.
I've felt the same way about a lot of people.
Some people are truly wonderful - and when you see it you do tend to feel like that. You want to make their life better and you hope that their life works out and they meet the potential you see in them
But you know that they aren't the person for you.
Most marriages don't last anyway so I think you're reasonable in saying that you want to marry him but not forever.
Good luck with whatever does happen. Just makes sure to not toy with his feelings. If he sees you as the person he does want to spend the rest of his life with don't break his poor heart. Forward moving people tend to be heartbreakers.
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