I am pregnant!!! I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and now I am pregnant with his baby. Im going to accept a job in another city and keep the baby. I do not want him to know b/c I feel like he would want to start the relationship again and for bad reasons. I dont want a man to commit to me b/c Im preggers. I want the man of my dreams...
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worrywort said:
wow -- keep friends and family close -- you'll need them, and best of luck to you... keep us up to date!!!
zulu said:
Well, I understand what you're saying and everything but I think he has a right to know. It's up to him if he wants anything to do with his child. You don't have to get back together with him, you can make that clear, but he deserve the chance to help bring up his kid
barney05 said:
ZULU COULD NOT OF SAID IT BETTER, THE BABY IS PART HIS, IT TAKES TWO TO MAKE A BABY
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I think you are being very selfish. Your child will not understand your decision later in life and will have dad issues. A kid should get all the love it can and should not be denied a dad because you of your feelings.
bicreation said:
Wow are you serious, just tell him you don't want a relationship with him. I can not beleive that you would keep the baby away from him because you know know how to say NO.
A child should know bolth parents regardless of the situation. It's really selfish of you to try to do this to an innocent baby. I sure hope you can grow up and see how this is going to affect the baby and your ex in the long run. I know from experince that your the only one that's gonna get hurt here.
It's called resentment, I grewt up in a house with just my mom and she kept me secret, think before you act cause this is a life long decesion not to be taken lightly.
Good luck and be sure to keep us updated on how you are.
Im a Creep said:
The guy might be a mistake, but the child isn't. I could not imagine you being able to sleep at night with the burden of that on your soul. I say you tell him and just not have a relationship with him... stay close to friends and family like said above, and get ready for your whole life to change and pray he is man enough to help you out without the emotional burden.
if he is willing to be a farther to the child... let him.
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Its not fair to him or the baby to not tell him. You've both undoubtedly made mistakes in the relationship but obviously you loved each other at some point, and possibly still do. Don't take this away from him and don't take away your babys chance to have his/her daddy from the beginning. It may lead to heartache and family strife later, in all your lives.
At least talk to someone else who can give you advice and some different perspective before you make a final decision. You would hate to run into him somewhere someday and have him looking into his own eyes if your child happens to be with you. Besides the emotional, there can also be legal ramifications you may want to check into as well before making that decision.
Its your choice obviously, but being a single mother isnt and coming from someone who didnt have their father as a child... it does have an effect.
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