I really don't know what to do...
Is it my fault?
We have a great sex life at least I believe so, everytime he wants to do it we do it...
I just don't understand why thou!!!!!!!!!
I want to trust him, but I am scared.. I love him sooo much thou!!
just dont know what to do!
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cybil said:
for good or bad, it has NOTHING to do with you. if he's out of hand -- neglecting kids, work, sleep, then it's an addiction like any other, not a substitute for you
justme said:
tks :D
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The thing is if a man looks at porn once he's probably going to look at it again, and again, and again. Its because there are chemicals released in his brain which are sent to a part of the brain behind the eyes. This creates a deep memory or a scar in his mind. Just like anyother addiction there is theropy to get help because it is a mental problem.
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so he watches porn even you're there? dam..., well at least find that a blessing that he doesn't go out shacking someone else.
justme said:
not when i am at home... i wish that was true :-s
mx25 said:
Don't take it so bad, most guys will look at porn... its better he does that than go with other women!
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If it bothering you, you should definitely speak to him about it. Of course, what everyone says here is true: most guys will look at porn. It'll never replace real feelings for someone else, and believe me, he's not having feelings for the personalities on screen.
Watching porn is not a sign that he's not into you. I watch porn too, and have done so while in a relationship. I never felt conflicted because I always objectified sex on the screen, and saved the real passionate love for my girlfriend. His watching porn while you're out is equatable to him masturbating alone while you're gone. It's understandable if he feels really shameless about it.
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Some have said that it is better for your husband to watch porn and do the "manly" thing than be with another woman. But it's not. You feel betrayed and hurt just like he IS with another woman. My husband has a problem, he can't control himself. even when im in the next room. So no it's not better than being with another woman. It's worse. if he was going somewhere else, i would know im competeing with a person, but with the porn, i can't compete with that.
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i know exactly how u feel!
Jaysmine said:
I Dont agree that if u watch porn that ur not into each other that is a lie because me and my boyfriend watch porn all the time
together and alone so we love it and cant get enough, and it makes our sex life even BETTER!!!
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