i am having an affair with my ex-boss.
i don't know why he is drawn to me, nor i to him.
he is married. has a family. i know it's wrong, but it seems so right.
and i never call him. he always calls me.
i have the upper hand, yet i feel so stuck.
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arushe said:
Please dont. I know it feels good and right now but belive me it is nothing worsed that the ending of it. I have been there and done that and I felt like a princes, but once they get what they want, they dont care that you are hurt and they forget what you have done for them. trust me you will go through all the pain on your own, becouse you know that there will be no happy ending. the guy is married right? just think about that. he is not going to live his wife for you for sure. Please end it before it is to late. I know it hurts but since you made that mistake, you are going to go through some pain and hurt no mater what. best of luck!!!
an0n said:
I would strongly consider thinking about how you would feel in his wife's position. Not trying to guilt-trip here, but just because he is willing to risk destroying his family doesn't mean that you should be party to that. I think if he really wants to be with you, he should be honest with his own wife first. That would also likely end the marriage, however. I would say call it quits before the situation deteriorates into something far worse, I mean--come on--haven't we all seen this happen enough times (in movies if not in reality) to know that it will likely end in disaster? That's not even touching the morality issue....
lalalalala said:
you dont know y your attracted to him......but you think its right...hmmm...well it depends on how much you love and respect your boyfriend (if you have one)... and if you respect this guys wife or not...
Shy said:
i have been here.. and guilt or whatever else aside, i learned that i want to have a relationship where i dont have to sacrifice (acknowledgment, time, etc.). No matter how much love this person had for me, or 'upper hand' i felt i had in the relationship, there was always this mysterious and grating feeling i couldnt get around.
i needed more.
Tony the Terrible said:
It is feels good the DO IT!! Besides its your "ex" boss it can't affect your present job HAHA
sweetie1452 said:
no...i'm going to say not do it...but I know how it will probably go in one ear and out the other. I do know how it feels to be involved already...all I can say is, it is going to end badly. It ALWAYS does.
THink about this: OK, so he leaves his wife and family for you. He will ALWAYS feel guilty bout leaving his wife and kids....that won't be good either...trust me you won't like that either,
CHances are, he is simply bored with homelife...he might tell you she's a bad wife or a nag, but 9 times out of 10, HE'S the one who is looking for some excitement outside of the mortgage, kids and wife. Hate to be such a downer when you feel so excited about his attention, but that is all it is, attention....be careful, take care and good luck.
trulypure777 said:
honey I think he made you think you have the upper hand when its really him. I mean think about it...he gets to choose whether he calls you or not. Whether its a night out with his wife or with you. I think he's got you were he wants you to be and has you thinking what he wants you to think
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