Well I have been married for going on six years and have a beautiful son age five. Before I met my husband I was dating a mutual friend of ours for about a year, he broke it off with me to start dating a co-worker 8 months later she got pregnant. My new relationship was developing we both still stayed in contact and would once in awhile get together sexually.
To make a long story short we both ended marrying the people we started dating after one another. But to this day almost 10 years later we are still having a affair this has been going on since day one. His wife just recently left him due her hearing that he has been cheating on her with me and now we have been even talking more. I'm so confused I do love my husband very much and I know this would hurt my son so deeply if we were ever to split. My feeling for my ex just seem to never go away and now knowing he is single again it's almost like I dont want hime to meet anyone knew. My husband has no idea any of this has been going on and I contantly have to carrie this on my shoulders....Help what should I do?
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dohickey said:
question is, make a big mistake, or 2 concessions -- you can't know what the other path will lead to, but likely the hurt on all sides would kill even the best chance. i'd stay with your family, and be happy for it
Shy said:
Deep down I know this is what I should do rather if it is what I want or not. I just wish I could get rid of the feelings I have for my ex and end the affair. On the other hand I keep finding my self go back it's really starting to way on me.
shadowfire said:
You only live one life.
Honestly, maybe you could try meditation or even hypnotism. You never know what could work. Try doing things with your family, it could remind you how much you truly care for them. Remember, you broke up with him for a reason. And you married your husband for a reason.
If your husband finds out about the affair, you have to know that a divorce is very well in the equation. be careful and think about your actions.
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