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I'm sincerely sorry that your friend needs to go through this in her life at this time... and I can see that you feel your friend's sorrow as well, Life moves and changes in mysterious way's and sometimes god's plan for us is unknown but there is alway's a reason, If but for the love god. Tears are a wonderful way of cleansing our hearts and souls so we can have clarity and unity. Your clarity and unity is how are you going to be pro active.Let not our fears hold us back , let them make us stand tall and strong, for we are children of god and with his love we will alway's have freedom and health... The children weren't meaning to be annoying they just didn't understand what was wrong ... you're the one that sat out there in the rain...Your love for your friend is going to be great comfort to her as she moves forward ... Usually when people go through this type of illness .. we can stand back and watch the changes that happens not only physically but emotionally... she will come out stronger ( not only physically but spiritually)for having gone through this.. believe it or not... there is a mission for her to over come to be that person...When our lessons in life have been ignored god will give it out very loud and clear .. he'll shout it out.. these are not punishments ... her life will be one of great change as I've said .. much more enlightened.. and much more loved by you and by others... for ever dark cloud there is a silver lining... Part of her life pattern was to have cancer .. whether that was to be part of the bigger picture , to aide others ,,who knows until we know.. but it will be known.. be there for her and be there for yourself, heed the lessons to be learnt from this experience.. you have life lessons too, to be learnt...blessings for your friend and for you