What should I do?My boyfriend just broke up with me and it was almost 3 years we have been dating. Now he wants to go back out. What should I do? I still love him and everything but I am scared that he will do it all over again. He promised me he wouldn't but I am still scared. I don't fully forgive him for breaking up with me because it really hurt. I cried for about 3 hours and I haven't really ate anything for about 2 days. All I had was a half of a hamburger in two days.I am sick to eat. What should I do?
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Shy said:
You should eat and tell your ex to kick rocks, it's that simple.
You sound young so I can only assume that's why you are taking it this hard. Break ups like this are what build a stronger personality. It won't be the last time that you will feel this pain. Expect to be heartbroken again. It gets easier the older you get. I am sure you will break hearts as well. That's what dating is all about. I hope you find a good man that won't cause you heart ache but til then know that this is not the end of the world. Word to yo mutha
donelle said:
pop in some barry manilow and find comfort in your pets. If you wanted to try again just prepare yourself for the worst, I'm not saying expect the worst, but prepare. Maybe it will be different now.All we can do is try.
Shy said:
it will be hard, but i think you should give him another chance. as a guy, i admit that we do stupid things a lot. hopefully, the reason is that he's realized his mistake, and wants you back because he realized that you are the one for him. if not, then you might get hurt again. but i think it's a chance worth taking. at least, that's my opinion. in the end, it's your choice
ShadowFox said:
i think you should give him a chance. as a guy, i admit that we do stupid things. a lot. hopefully, the reason he wants you back is that he knows he made a mistake, and realized that you are the one for him. this may not be the reason, and you may get hurt again. but i think that it would be worth taking that risk. at least, that's what i think
DarkGoddessLibrarian said:
I agree. EAT SOMETHING. No man is worth physically hurting yourself. I think it also depends on why he says he broke up with you and why he says he wants to get back together. Also, lean on friends. If they know both of you, they should be able to advise you whether he's just a good guy who made a mistake or an a-hole who should go drown in a lake.
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