My brother's girlfriend is someone I have yet to meet. He lives out of state. Still, after countless phone conversations with both of them, I feel that he is making a huge mistake in marrying her. I stumbled upon her blog a few weeks ago and some of the things she puts in it are disturbing. One day she will write how wonderful he is, the next she writes that she likes someone else. Then, she will write that he is the man she wants to marry, then she will write the next day that they will never last. Good god! She needs to decide what the hell she wants. My brother wants her and intends on marrying her. He has nothing but good things to say about this stupid twit, who by the way has misconstrued things said in conversation and twisted them around to use against him in arguments. For example: I told her that only a special woman could handle him, meaning that she must be pretty special and she told him during a fight that I said she wasn't special enough. Another time, she told him that I said that he was crazy and needed to be on medication. What I said was...I am bipolar and USED to be on medication for it. In a totally seperate conversation I told her that my brother and I were a lot alike. She is not right in the head. Not only that, she has a tendency to run home to Mama when things get a little uneasy. Right now, her children are living with her parents, because they are fed up with the constant upheavel this girl has caused in their grandchildren's lives. They don't blame my brother. They blame their daughter.
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Shy said:
*hug*
bigfan said:
ugh -- tells you a lot that her folks and her kids opt out... you might be making the right call, but share this with your bro, even if it's hard and he ignores you. ok?
super17 said:
has he seen the blog?
collabo said:
yes share with your bro.
someguy said:
Wow, sounds just like my mother. If this is all true, I would advise that you talk to your brother.
zannasgirl said:
Have u told ur bro about all this stuff, they mayb all he needs he may not know about how she acts or she could be telling him something totally different i think u should just talk to him
Shy said:
If he knows that's your honest opinion of her, and that you want the best for him, there's not much else to do. Respect his right to make this choice as an adult, even though it's the wrong one. Sounds like if he's dumb enough to go with her after all these fights then no amount of reasoning will help. He'll just have to figure it out for himself.
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