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Crazy Bitch Ex

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Posted July 24th, 2009 by whyme

These are the emails Between him and His Ex.

So is Jason moving to Oregon with Anna? You may know that I picked a severe fight with her and we now hate each other. But I was just wondering what Jason was going to do once Anna is gone. Even though Jason probably doesn't like me anymore, I'd still like to see him if he comes up here to visit, since I have no one up here. Any inside info would be helpful.

Ok good. sorry. anyway, on livejournal i basically told anna that she flirts with other guys too much and i can't believe jason's still with her yadda yadda. that was spurred by the time i sent her a gift from up here and she never thanked me or called me or anything. then a month or 2 later she posted on livejournal saying to everyone who went to her b-day party smething like "sorry for being overly flirtatious, everyone" so that's when i made the comment about how she isn't good enough for jason, pretty much. i was just pissed that she didn't thank me for the gift, so i got back at her. then recently, we got into it on livejournal again and i finally ended up calling her a "skaaaaaaank" and i said something like "have a nice life. " now that i think about it, i shoulda said "have a shitty life. " so yeah, we hate each other.

and i just found out through rob that jason and anna are breaking up and she is moving up here at the end of the month. needless to say, it'll be awkward, at best, if i see her on the streets of portland. hehe

So, how ya been?
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Jeez my phone logged me on.
When I logged into my yahoo app. I don't really log on much anymore. Have no problem with you nor does Melinda. If I find out anything I'll let you know
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So you logged on today, and didn't respond to my message. Were you just going to ask Jason later, or are you being an asshole? Granted, I'm probably the bigger asshole out of the both of us. But Matt and Melissa still talk sometimes and they aren't "weird" about it. A lot of exes do. If you just don't want to talk to me because I fucked you over back in the day, fine. But if this is because you are in a relationship and you "can't" talk to me, that's pretty messed up. I think it IS for that reason, because even after we broke up we still remained friends, up until you got with your current girlfriend. Then I got cut off. And hey, I don't want Matt chatting with his exes, but if the conversation is just about a mutual friend, I give him leeway. Pshhhhh

yeah, sorry. I jump to conclusions easily. it's just that you haven't responded to much i've sent you in the past so i assumed this instance was more of the same. i can be a bitch for no good reason sometimes. whoops no hard feelings?

And My emails between me and her

You're way off base. I'm happy and content up here in Portland, and certainly don't care to assert myself into the lives of anyone (except for the ones I already communicate with regularly) down in that shithole you call your home. Like I said, I have no desire to talk to Frank, except to catch up when we cross paths, like this time.
Furthermore, I'd like to stress my point by going so far as to say that- Any person who has ever cheated on someone, and any person who has slept with a taken person- is on a lower plane of existence than I. I'm banking on the possibility that you have done one of these things in your life, in which case I am most certainly insulting you. But even if you haven't, you are definitely at least a little crazy. Thanks for starting this; I'm enjoying it.

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look I do not like bevause my first and only impression of you was not a good one and yes frank did tell you what william said he told me that you slept with frank while dating shay and dear if you want to take this to a curse level your dreams will have the stich of all of your bad choices in life and you life will be empty adong as you haunt myself as far as frank he has free will he has self choice and knowledge. I am nor ever worried about being alone if he leaves I will be just fine you just think that you have control an dear no one not one soul controls anything that does not nor wants to be controled

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No, Frank didn't tell me what William said. And you have no reason to dislike me outside of your own insecurities. I have done nothing to you. I was friends with Frank until you guys got together, and I peacefully withdrew to make things go smoothly for you two, and my own new-found relationship. And that was that. Ever since Frank has been with you, I had little to no contact with him, and I have never once spoke ill of you, and I never disliked you either. I don't know you well enough for that, and you don't know me well enough to dislike me. I told you what I've done "wrong" which isn't really wrong. I dated shay only long after Frank and I were through. I have never cheated on anyone in my life, neither have I slept with a taken man. I'm a good girl. You just don't like me because I used to date your boyfriend. Grow up, and stay off my myspace page if you don't like me. If you send me another vague, unhelpful message, I'll start to curse. And I can really dish it out, so watch it.
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as i said my thoughts on you are my own
and your regrets are your own
frank already told you what william said
and i apologize for trying to be polite to you
I really don't want to come off as bitchy but the way i read it was that you might want to still be friends with frank
and that i am not one to be in the way of anyone talkingto anyone they want

so if you don't want to talk to him that is your right
as far as being friends with jason i can't help you on that
as far as anna i can't help jason on that either

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first off, i had no idea you didn't like me. second, i don't know what i did that was so bad. all that could have been construed as bad was the fact that
1. i dated shay, which i regret
2. i called anna a skank, which i don't regret, except for that jason, the person i REALLY want to be friends with, doesn't like me any more.
I really don't have any desire to speak to Frank these days. I wrote a paper on him because we were supposed to write about someone who changed our lives, and he did. The only reason I might want to speak to Frank is if one of his family members gets deathly ill.
SO: What Did William Say??? I have done nothing wrong except for date frank's friend. Please tell me.
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I have thought how to answer this question and I was not sure to give you a bitch answer or a smarter I know more about life answer.
So I guess I will tell you, you should not live with regret.

I still talk with all but one of my ex's. And if you feel like you have unresolved issue you really need to work those out.
You know i don't like you and if what William told me was true or not is really not my business you don't have to answer to me about anything. But you do have to live with yourself and somethings in life are better said to those that you hurt or feel you hurt.
So I guess the reason I gave you his number is it would be better for your soul to make amends for yourself.

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why?
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So since I seem to be crazy and she seems to be deranged I think I am going to end this relationship. She seems to think he does not talk to me and that I did not know the emails the swapped or something.
But I can not have deranged people in my life and do not want crazy people around my children.
Yes I was drunk during one of one the messages to her and i deserve to be reprimanded for that but she needs to admit what she wants because it would make her life easier.