My boyfriend and i broke up 11months ago since august of last year. I've been single for some reasons. One factor is that there's this one guy i really fancied, but he is just not that in to me. He treats me like his lil sis even though i often hang out with him and help him in his studies/hws. My concern now is that, my ex boyfriend called me up a few days ago.. He asked me how was i doing. That he MISSES me. After that, we exchanged messages, he would often say "iloveyou!", "iloveyou so much!" and "I miss you.". I do likewise because honestly i am not completely over him. i still do have feelings for my ex boyfriend. I'm wondering why he's not yet telling me that he wants to be with me again. Like, ya he constantly says he do loves me but why doesn't he tell me he wants to be in a relationship with me again? I'm confused... Yesterday, he called me up and we were having a good conversation when suddenly he butted "DO YOU KNOW WHY I CALLED YOU?.." my heart sank deeply...i could not imagine what he was gonna tell. I'm afraid that it is bad news... I was like "oh my god what have i done this time.." ... i started crying, i yelled at him saying "no ,no, no one's gonna talk, no one's gonna say anything... la alalalalala, da da da!!!...." and finally i told him "IT'S BETTER TO DROP THE CALL THAN FOR YOU TO SAY THAT "THING" YOU WANNA SAY". then he answered "okay, ill hang the phone now." i was so angry, i put off my phone ahead of him. I'm so worried now.. :( I'm really very afraid that he's going to get married already.. :'( that's what my heart feels. :'( We are long distance couples, there were a lot of misunderstandings between us, and i think its possible for him to find another woman aside from me considering the fact that we are APART. :( I've been so down and sad right now.. i could hardly concentrate with my school... What should i do?... If ever my speculations were true, what shall i do?:( he's the only person i fell in love so deeply. :(
I could not afford to lose him. :( Please help me guys. Thanks alot and God bless us!
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Shy said:
"why doesn't he tell me he wants to be in a relationship with me again?"
Ask him if he wants to be in a relationship with you. Don't wait on him to ask. He never will.
rantandraver said:
i agree with "shy" -- he was never anything but needy, and if you fall into the web, you'll be used so long it might SEEM like a relationship, but that's NOT what's missing. be happy for YOU.
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