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Sexual Harassment

This guy at lunch grabbed my chest, butt, and crotch yesterday, two other guys were too. I tried to stop them but I couldn't, they wouldn't listen when I said no. So I just moved. Two guys were my friends, but the other guy, I didn't even know his name. I told my boyfriend after school, and he told my mom. Now she's taking me to school today, and I feel so weird about it, It's so weird to talk to the principal about it, I don't think I can do it. The other guys at the table said that my boyfriend wouldn't do shit anyway so I think that he thought it was "ok" and did it anyway.

What if he lies about me and they believe him over me?

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it's a GOOD thing. far too many women worry about these things when they are stoppable, and it encourages much worse. i have been to hospitals and one funeral because the girl worried about it or didn't speak up, and the same guy came back again, and again... in one case, 4 different women. you did right thing and your BF and mom did, too.

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It's girls that mostly get sexualy harassed in schools and don't talk about it. It's a normal thing to not say anything about, because it's just to embarrassing to have people knowing about it. So should a young girl go threw the extra embarrassment of telling the whole world, or keeping it to themselves? It usually desmissed as sexual teen play driven by their hormones and usually girls are targets because their taken advantage off. I my school years I witnessed boys harassing girls and girls harassing girls. But once in a while boys also end up as victims. I had a friend in school that was humiliated by some older boys just for fun. He got dragged outside while taking a shower, just so girls could see him naked. It was sexually satisfying to expose someone's nakedness, that they themselves would have considered humiliating. For them it was as much of a turn on, as it was for the girls outside waiting to see him get pulled out with nothing on. In a matter of seconds he bacame the most humiliated boy in the whole school. He never mentioned a word about it. If something like that would have happen to me I would have done exactly the same. Why extend your embarrassment by telling the whole world you got paraded nude in public?

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