He had been my best friend for over a year now...lately though i felt like i liked him as more than a friend. He would always say things like "i dont like relationships" ...its all a waste of time so i mean i guess i had really no hope. We were good friends.. always would argue with each other but i guess for some reason i could never stay mad at him and he could never stay mad at me. We were hanging out one day and he just outta nowhere said he liked me ... we kissed and it was magical .. absolutely magical.. we've been in a relationship eversince but now.. he's just being taken away from me and i dont know what to do. i dont know when i will see him again..we'll still keep in touch but its just not the same i love him so much and i dont want him to go away..i dont know what to do when we finally decide to tell each other how we feel we're just separated like this.
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cybil said:
just sounds like you should get on your own path, THEN think about this all... go forward, find yourself, revisit later
cutiepie0 said:
thnx cybil...i guess you're right.. its just my feelings for him are so strong and being without him hurts. ALOT. :|
cybil said:
lss and less as you get more and more on YOUR way, not back-looking
Shy said:
I think I know how you feel. One thing that I know for sure is that you cannot make a man love you, no matter what you do. Either this comes from him naturally or doesn't come at all.
If he withdrew from you, it means that he doesn't want to give you unrealistic expectations. After what happened between you, he cannot see you as a pal anymore and knows that you expect more from the relationship with him.
My honest advice is to try to forget him and focus on something else. Even if this seems quite impossible now, time cures everything sooner or later. Sometimes it takes years to forget someone you're in love with, but if you find another nice man in the meantime, the cure can come earlier.
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