The Friend Zone should be shot in the metaphorical kneecaps!!!
Posted September 24th, 2008 by EternallyLonsome
I am cursed, Seriously cursed. Let's start by saying, I'm a guy, a nice guy in fact. So nice that no girl wants to date me they just want me around so that I could be their straight "gay friend." The only time being the gay friend is cool is if the guy is gay, I am not. I'm just pissed and single. I've been single for way too long...
So anyways I like this girl and she's awesome but I don't want to end up in the friend zone (I HATE THE FRIEND ZONE!)I was thinking maybe its my lack of openness I tend to bring out the secrets in others, people, especially girls tell me way too much, unfortunately I haven't had time or experience to talk about myself. Whenever I do get the opportunity to open up I either change the subject or talk around it (I must have been a politician in another life.) I don't think it is healthy or truthful for me to pretend to be something else i.e. changing from a good guy to a bad guy just to meet girls is not only stupid but deceitful.
So, openness? I don't know... I NEED TO DO SOMETHING! eternally
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You should definitively start doing more talking maybe if the girl got to know you she would fall in love with you.
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Neil Strauss. The Game. At the very least you'll get a laugh from some of the stuff in there, it's a fun book.
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Right on.
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Right on.
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